70th Birthday Afternoon Tea

On Sunday I went to Janet’s 70th birthday afternoon tea (her actual birthday was Monday 24th Feb) at Prestonfield House in Edinburgh. This lovely hotel is very near Janet’s house and we have walked in its grounds many times when the boys were wee. There were about a dozen of us from different parts of Janet’s life and she had helpfully put our relationship to her on our placecards! For example mine said Susan Anderson, Cousin; while others said “Walking Group” or “Neighbour” or “School Friend.” It made for a good conversation starter as we all discussed where and when we had met Janet. The afternoon tea was delightful and was served on display stands, with copious amounts of Prosecco (including non alcoholic Prosecco) and tea and coffee. There was a quiz and a lot of chat and laughter; I really liked Janet’s friends and also enjoyed reconnecting with her sister-in-law Jill who I haven’t seen for many years. And it was great getting the chance to chat with Anne, what a delightful young woman she is. 
Monday was intense. I spent the morning observing three Children’s Hearings. They were virtual hearings but I managed to join the meetings ok; there was a really good virtual support person who ensured that everyone was signed in and sent them new links if there was a problem. It was all very interesting. 
And today James and I went over to Morag’s, it was very nice to see her and Gordon, and she made us a brilliant lunch. It’s the first time that we have visited her home, which is absolutely beautiful. 
It will come as no surprise to those who know me that I lack self confidence and can be hurt all too easily. But today James said some very kind things to me. I was very moved; he really has my back. And coincidentally three separate people all happened to reach out to me today to arrange to meet up. I felt touched; I’m really very lucky.